How researching living relatives brought cousins together to share
their family stories.

One of my recent clients asked me to find information about her mother,
Ruth - as she was brought up by foster mothers; and the only information they
had was a name on her birth certificate. Searching through the 1911 census and
birth records, Ruth's mother, Rose,  was found living with her grandmother
and a young uncle in a small town in Buckinghamshire -  but after her last grandparent died, she then moved to London.  We can only assume she moved to London in the early 1920s, to seek
employment and perhaps some excitement, because by then Rose was a young woman.


But by 1928 she became an unmarried mother.  Without social or family support she had to leave her baby girl in the hospital - baby Ruth was handed over to a child carer employed by the local
authority. Rose was able to move on with her life and went on to marry, and had
another child. A boy.  It is hard to imagine how Rose must have felt leaving her child behind, and never seeing her baby again.

Ruth grew up in different foster homes, never knowing any family relative, until she eventually married and had children of her own - by researching living people, Rose's grandchildren were found and were introduced to their unknown Aunt Ruth.  Now two branches of the same family are gradually getting to know each other. 

Photos and stories about Rose's life are currently being shared with Ruth and her family, and so for the first time in her life Ruth knows more about her own mother than just a name. Rose's grandchildren feel sad, knowing that their grandmother, as a very loving mother and grandmother, had carried her
secret, of her baby girl to the grave.

Lynne
Family Historian

Check back next week for tips on searching the history of a house....


 
 
 
"Sex in the Middle Ages Historians of the Middle Ages have been exploring issues related to sex and sexuality. Here are some of the more interesting pieces of research we have uncovered about sex in the Middle Ages."

I found the above information on http://www.medievalists.net/2013/02/14/sex-in-the-middle-ages/, and introduced it to a group that I tutor in Family research - our group have many interesting discussions and I thought this topic would create some interesting talks - I wasn't disappointed!
We all learnt a lot about how our ancestors from the middle ages may have maintained an intimate relationship and all of us considered that it must have been very hard - with the lack of privacy, lack of freedom and all the rules its a wonder that our ancestors had children at all!

Sex aside its always interesting to read about how our ancestors may have lived!  Its nice to know more than just names and dates, and have a 'picture' of their lives.

How are you getting on with learning about how your ancestors lived?  Would love to hear your stories.
until next time,
Lynne


 
 
A client recently told me of a really spooky thing that happened to him.  While looking over his family tree he remembered an older cousin who had asked their grandparents, aunts and uncles 101 questions about the family and noted everything down on paper - years passed by and he eventually passed away.  The cousin's daughter took over and promised nearly 40 years ago to provide a copy of the family tree to my client.  Again, years passed by without the copy.  But, at exactly the same time my client was puzzling over some gaps in his family tree, a letter popped through his letter box.  The letter?  His cousin's daughter posted him all the names of his grandparents siblings, and more!  The information was a great help owing to the very common surname.  Was my client's cousin helping from the spirit world?  or just a coincidence?
Happy hunting
Lynne
 
 
Getting quite excited tonight - going with friends to see the rowing tomorrow.  Hopefully I'll have some photos to share in the next couple of days - I have so much research to do, which I really enjoy but will have to have an early night!

Happy hunting and watching TV.
 
 
This morning I had a cup of tea with several people who had lots of interesting life stories.  One lady went to RADA many years ago and told us stories about some of the now famous actors; a man told us stories of his travelling in his youth and an amazing escape from death from a wild animal in Africa; and another lady who lived in India during the early 1950s.  All amazing experiences!
They are all retired people now, but love to tell their stories, and I love to listen!
Take care, Lynne